Hopelessly Hopeful

Watch the ball drop at midnight (don't know why I always found that phrase hilariously dirty 😉). Get drunk. And groove to...I am going to. Hit it! And Cheers 🍻🥂 (hic! hic! hic!) Happy New Year 🎈🎉🥳🎊🥃

 

Ami Tomake Bhalobasi. Nah.  Te Amo . There. Today, no other language can define this feeling more than Spanish, the official language of Argentina.  But then again, the language of love is universal. Sometimes it's not even spoken. Sometimes it's reflected in your eyes or your smile. Sometimes it's in your small gestures. It is not a Big Bang. Love is often found in moments. And each of those moments make you more beautiful. So, if you are loved, you are beautiful, you are blessed. And, may you remain blessed, always ❤️.

We have both feminine and masculine energies within us. What we need to do is balance them. As humans, our genders doesn't really define us. We are fluid, just different in our physical form.  While I understand my feminine nature and embrace it fully, I don't have much understanding of how to balance the masculine energy. And that's what I want to know. Somehow it's easy to define compassion, kindness, love, softness and giving as a part of being feminine, but how to imbibe authority, freedom, direct and outgoing approach, etc. and create harmony for the masculine?  It's lopsided for now. I do achive it in pockets but I do realise that society has been conditioning us as male and female, and thereby creating a great divide between us. Instead, we should have been made aware that irrespective of our physical bodies, we have both the energies within and when we look beyond the physical, at the energy level, even this distinction of the body blurs completely. When you

If it helps, I will tell you this  This churn will end one day The pain and hurt that you now feel Will melt away some day Trust yourself Your journey Your path You know the person that you are Don't let them dictate  Taint you more Purge the known  Unlearn them all You are your guide Your one true mentor Surrender to your self  And listen to what you say You are wise beyond your age A soul as old as yore It's time to emerge from your confine To be the sun to your sunshine.

There is a difference between needing someone and wanting someone.  When you need someone, you are leaning on to the person, there is always a dependency. Even for your happiness, you look upto the person. It somehow becomes the other person's responsibility to make you happy. How fair is that? Why burden someone like that. Whereas when you say you want someone, it's because you truly want to be with them. They don't become responsible for your happiness, but you become happy because of the mere fact that they are there. Just their presence makes a difference, no matter where they are or what they do. This want comes from a place of fulfillment.  So, if you truly want someone, tell them, "I am, because you are. This thread connects us, no matter the length, no matter the entanglements. This want is greater than any needs in the world and beyond. That's how much I want you." And see how free you will feel.